El sexo anal siempre producirá curiosidad. Ya sea como experiencia dentro de la vida íntima o, en el caso de no contemplarlo, por lo morboso que puede resultar imaginar meter algo por el culo.

And, since it is one of the most famous practices for both reasons, we do not get tired of reading (and in my case of writing) about it.

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Of everything that appears related to anal sex (if it hurts, how to do it with hygiene, if it is bleeding ...) I have realized that in the female forums there are some consultations that are repeated from the beginning of the Internet.

"My boyfriend wants anal sex, but I don't like what should I do?"or “if we don't have anal sex he says he leaves me.I don't want to lose him ".Even a literal "I'm scared" in case her partner breaks with her if she refuses to do it.

I am not so worried about the fact that there may be a lack of understanding in the relationship when trying something new (after all, there is always a member with more tendency to experience than the other).

It is the fact that we do not take into consideration what we want to do -or in this case we do not want -, just to please the other person or even arrive by force, either for fear of breaking the couple or havingAn infidelity for not accessing this (under these lines you can read some of the real consultations that currently circulate through the network).

So I'm going to explain it in parts and try to make you understand why if you don't want to pass by, you are in your entire right.

First, and however obvious the statement is, your ass is yours and you decide if you want to keep it as a way out.I repeat, you, not your boyfriend.If your partner has so much desire to try what it is, that he is the one who gets something behind.

Those who have practiced it, we cannot deny that there are more than enough reasons to not want to do it as it hurts, it can produce wounds, bleeding, it can lead to health problems ...

Second, you have to be faithful to the same in all areas, especially in sexuality.It is essential to respect our own wishes doing only what we feel comfortable with.We can have reasons that the other person does not share or does not understand, but that does not mean that our decision is less valid.

Finally, if you receive any type of pressure with threats that it can be the trigger for a break or any other type of repercussion, it is clear that this person sees you as an ass and not as a whole.And, friend, you don't want to someone who only has an interest in being with you in a sexual practice (or interest in anything you are not).

Sexuality is varied enough to enjoy it without the need to participate the anus.You are not going to live a less full life for not trying.

Duchess DosLabios.

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